Learn How To Meet Gals
My fellow men question me about " finding women " and "how to pick up a woman " and equivalent things frequently .
But honestly the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to approach women?"
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I published my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
I guess I should explain. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sanely selecting a mate.
Now I would be the first one to acknowledge that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and constant interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
They said: "Don't get very serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
It may seem immature, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.
Most of us adults never really followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and hooked up with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
Unfortunately, there is a difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also the fact is that most people commonly continue this trend of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the end it leads to unhappiness in relationships, and a failure to fully grasp the opposite sex.
You see there are many different kinds of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out there and got a lot of experience.