How You Can Speak To Any Female, Anytime, Anywhere Successfully.
When we speak about the matters of approaching women, or how to approach women, we invariably come up with the skill of conversation being integral to the skill of how to approach women with success.
I've always praised at my ability to initiate conversation with anybody at any time about any topic - even when there is supposedly "nothing to talk about". It's a talent I have and in this piece of writing I will tell you the SIMPLE magic to my success.
The best way to induce a conversation is to ask questions. Too simple? Well, let me describe.
What do you ask questions regarding?
Well, I always just ask questions about anything I want to know. It differs from person to person. But normally if I am meeting someone new I would ask questions such as "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you live with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of pals?"
Usually a person chats for a while when answering and that lends you more data to ask even more questions about. Often I will make a comment if it is appropriate or if they ask me a question in answering to my question I just answer their question then ask them another one of my questions.
The tough times are when people just give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't give much to work off of.
When I feel the situation is annoying or the person isn't talking much (like the above "yes" and "no" answers), then I talk about how painful the situation is. Say something like "This is embarrassing. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to speak. Do you feel embarrassed too?"
Usually you can get a little conversation going on that topic and ease a lot of stress just by admitting that you feel awkward and don't know what to say. Then proceed to a question like "Ok, let's look at what we can speak about. What are your passions? Do you have any pastime activities?"
Another questioning method is to notice what a person puts their concentration on and discuss or ask questions about that. So, for example, if you are in a cafe and the person you are dating isn't talking much, just looking at the menu, you could possibly say "Kind of an interesting menu. What appears good to you?" That might spark a conversation about food items or restaurants and menus, etc.
This technique is also good for meeting unfamiliar persons. If you are in a general store next to some one interesting who is staring at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are desirous about the lamb chops. Do you know a good way to cook them, I've always wished to try them, but actually don't know how to make them."
Remember also that you are not necessarily going to get along with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and try to get a decent dialogue going and it doesn't happen then this is probably not the best person for you.